Saturday, March 1, 2008 @ 7:27 AM
sdgadh.

I hate this.

What is it with girls that they believe that their boyfriends must be romantic 24/7. All the time, they expect their guy to be romantic. If the guy isn't, he gets bombarded with whines and tempers from her.

So what the hell is up with this?

Being romantic is like having a pool of emotions in one's body. If you expect the guy to keep being romantic all the time, 1 day, that pool is going to run out faster before it can be replenished.

Furthermore, different guys have different ways to show their "romantic-ness". For some people it's by words. For others, it's the things they present to the girl. But to the girl, this isn't interpreted as romantic. Buying gifts is a true romantic sign if you think about it especially if he suddenly shows up and gives it to you for example IF he suddenly shows up and gives you a sunflower and you blush and giggle and go crazy over it and SAY that it was unexpected of him to give it because it's him.


My next problem is with the 3 words, "I Love You".

First of all, those 3 words are not something that one should say easily. They mean something deep so some people have a certain way or moment when they say it. For example, IF the guy wants to say it when he has the right emotions at the time to convey the message those 3 words mean, then so be it. It doesn't freaking mean that he loves you only at certain times.


And finally, be understanding. If he has projects and events that cause him to be very busy, don't pester him to go out with you. Also, don't whine about how other boyfriends are to their girlfriends and how he's not, about how he has no time for anything at all. Stop whining and lamenting how boring he has become or how ignorant he is now because really, you're adding on to the stress he has for the things he has to do.

AND, it isn't right whatsoever to go out with another guy behind his back. 1 ON 1 is very wrong no matter how you look at it. Giving a reason because your guy is too busy, isn't a reason. IT'S A FREAKING EXCUSE!

At least tell the guy each time. It doesn't matter if he's a friend. This isn't controlling, it's common courtesy.


YOU GOT THAT?

Saturday, March 1, 2008 @ 7:27 AM
sdgadh.

I hate this.

What is it with girls that they believe that their boyfriends must be romantic 24/7. All the time, they expect their guy to be romantic. If the guy isn't, he gets bombarded with whines and tempers from her.

So what the hell is up with this?

Being romantic is like having a pool of emotions in one's body. If you expect the guy to keep being romantic all the time, 1 day, that pool is going to run out faster before it can be replenished.

Furthermore, different guys have different ways to show their "romantic-ness". For some people it's by words. For others, it's the things they present to the girl. But to the girl, this isn't interpreted as romantic. Buying gifts is a true romantic sign if you think about it especially if he suddenly shows up and gives it to you for example IF he suddenly shows up and gives you a sunflower and you blush and giggle and go crazy over it and SAY that it was unexpected of him to give it because it's him.


My next problem is with the 3 words, "I Love You".

First of all, those 3 words are not something that one should say easily. They mean something deep so some people have a certain way or moment when they say it. For example, IF the guy wants to say it when he has the right emotions at the time to convey the message those 3 words mean, then so be it. It doesn't freaking mean that he loves you only at certain times.


And finally, be understanding. If he has projects and events that cause him to be very busy, don't pester him to go out with you. Also, don't whine about how other boyfriends are to their girlfriends and how he's not, about how he has no time for anything at all. Stop whining and lamenting how boring he has become or how ignorant he is now because really, you're adding on to the stress he has for the things he has to do.

AND, it isn't right whatsoever to go out with another guy behind his back. 1 ON 1 is very wrong no matter how you look at it. Giving a reason because your guy is too busy, isn't a reason. IT'S A FREAKING EXCUSE!

At least tell the guy each time. It doesn't matter if he's a friend. This isn't controlling, it's common courtesy.


YOU GOT THAT?